Clean Sweep: Do you lack routine in your life?

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

Discipline. Routine. Order. Schedules. Chore Charts. Meal planning.

Do those things make you groan inside? If you tend to be a perfectionist person you thrive on those things, but if you are not, those words make you want to bury your head under your pillow and forget that they exist. Meal planning and chore charts overwhelm me, even though I want to do it. My sister loves such things, and pulls together daily routines and meal plans in no time. By the time she has it all planned out and gone to the store for her groceries, I’m still at home buried in recipes and writing down my chores! (Ok so that is a bit of a stretch…but you get my point!).

It really doesn’t have to be that complicated. There are multiple resources out there to make all of this easier. I find if I focus on it, truly push everything aside for 30 minutes it makes it go a lot faster. As a wife and mother it is our job to ensure that these things are planned out. Food on the table and basic chores done each day. Some ladies might think this is so simple you can’t believe I’m even writing about this. But I know there are dozens of ladies out there who struggle with the basic day to day routines.

We just have a few days left of this challenge, and I want you to finish strong! Please join me in the challenges today.

Physical Challenge

Today you need to carve out some time in your day to print off some meal planning forms. Tomorrow we will do chore charts. Pick your favorite printable and actually plan out your week. I’ll share links below of some helpful (most of them free!) resources.

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Meal Planning Printables  from Holy Spirit Led Homeschooling

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Weekly grocery shopping list based on your meal plan. I love this one!

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Grocery Shrink Plus – Meal Planning for Busy Families. This one isn’t free, but for just $5.00 a month you can have complete meal plans for breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks sent to your inbox each Friday! The best thing about these meals is that they are healthy but husband approved. :) Even better is if you are following a gluten free diet, or doing the Trim Healthy Mama eating plan she includes ideas on how to make the recipes work for that!

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A complete home management binder! This includes your meal planning form and chore charts.

Spiritual Challenge

Accountability is a wonderful thing. It can be humbling as you make yourself open to someone else. They learn more about your struggles in a certain area then you might want them to!

The Bible is clear in the fact that we need each other.

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Last week I asked online for an accountability partner. I know I need to be exercising each morning but it just does not seem to happen. Thankfully a friend (in real life!) responded right away saying she was wanting an accountability partner as well, so we are starting to send each other a private message on Facebook each day letting each other know if we did our workout for the day. We both admitted yesterday that if we had not had each other to keep us accountable that we would not have done our workout.

Try to find someone to keep you accountable. I actually don’t suggest your husband, I’ve tried that before and it is so easy to let it all slip. Find a friend, whether in life or online to keep you on track. If you lack the discipline to do meal planning, or keep up with chore charts, or exercise, find someone that you can report to each day letting them know you accomplished your goal!

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Clean Sweep: Pick your own project!

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

Cleaning our homes should bring delight to our home. You might be married to someone who does not care about messes. I’m married to someone who is absolutely thrilled when he walks in the door and the house is clean. He cannot rest well when there are messes everywhere. In order for him to delight in being home I am trying to work harder on having the house organized and clean. When he came home yesterday the main part of the house was clean and I had been organizing some areas. I know that blesses him even if he doesn’t say much.

Likewise, our family will experience the joy of a content and happy mama if we work on our spiritual challenges. We will fall and stumble many times, but it is better to actively be working on a goal then to sit back and throw up our hands in despair.

Keep striving for better things. Don’t give up in discouragement.

Physical Challenge

Today you get to pick your own assignment! Don’t pick a huge project, tackle one small area that needs organized. Set the timer for 15 minutes and work as hard as you can. It might be a bookcase, a toy area,  or a cabinet in the kitchen. These little jobs pile up quickly, but if we do one thing at a time it’s not as overwhelming as tackling all of them at once.

Spiritual Challenge

We are going to be spending some time this week creating some chore charts and basic schedule. In order for those to work we must have discipline in our own lives. Today’s challenge is to read this excellent article by Terri Maxwell called “From Lazy to Self-Discplined” and ponder and pray on the scriptures and thoughts she shares.

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Clean Sweep: Cleaning the Refrigerator!

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

It’s Friday! I don’t know about you but Friday brings cheer to my heart, even if we don’t have anything special planned for the weekend. :) Just knowing we made it through another school week and we get to have time with my husband home is a wonderful thing.

Here are your assignments for today!

Physical Challenge

Today we are going to clean out the refrigerator! I know it can be  a big job but we must tackle it!

Pull out all your old food that is rotting in the clear back of your fridge. Most of us have one or two items like this that gets buried and forgotten at times.

We are going to clean the shelves and drawers. I like to clean the main part of the refrigerator first, and then clean the door. Take out the food from the main part, scrub it down, put the food back and then do the door.

Spiritual Challenge

Do you ever flirt with your husband? Do you do anything or say anything that brings a funny grin to his face, and reminds you of when you were dating/courting? So many times we get busy in life and forget to cherish our marriage and do anything to nurture it. Last night my husband and I went on a date and had so much fun being together!

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We actually went to hear a talk at a local art museum for extra credit for his college degree, but we made a date out of  it by going to dinner before (we had a Groupon for a yummy steak restaurant thanks to my mother in law!) and then we went shopping after the talk. Of course the night ended with some ice cream from Chick-Fil-A!

Today I want you t0 think of one thing you can do for your husband that is above and beyond what you normally do. Pick up a special treat for him, do something at home for him that he has been asking you to do, or put the children to bed early and plan an awesome date night at home!

When I need ideas I always go to the Dating Divas website. They have ideas for all types of marriages so I’m not saying I like every single idea but I’m sure you will find something there that would work!

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Clean Sweep: Declutter our countertops!

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

I hope that even if you are not able to follow along the physical challenge, that you will still check in each day and be encouraged by the spiritual challenge for the day! I know life can get busy and it is sometimes impossible to fit in the extra cleaning each day. Just keep trying if you are able!

Physical Challenge

Today should hopefully be simple, as long as you don’t have a lot of clutter built up on your counters. We are going to clean our countertops.

1. Clean off all the clutter, throw away the paper items that pile up, make a pile of items that go in different rooms and put them in a basket to put away later.

2. Grab a spray bottle and cleaning sponge (you can even clean with essential oils!). Spray down your countertops and especially your backsplash and wipe the countertops down good.

3. Put back ONLY what is necessary to be on your countertops. If you are needing some inspiration about what a clean, uncluttered countertop can look like, check out Money Saving Mom’s post where she shares tips and pictures on how she keeps her kitchen counters looking very clean!

Spiritual Challenge

A soft answer turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.” Proverbs 15:1

It can be incredibly difficult to be a mother and not lose our temper sometimes. When we yell at our children we really are not accomplishing any good character training, or breaking them of their bad attitude. We are simply venting, and perhaps they have learned to stop if we yell loud enough. It is a vicious bad cycle to be in, and I have been guilty of doing it at times.

Today as mothers, you and I together, we are going to resolve to not yell one single time at our children. If we are frustrated, just don’t say a word until you calm down and can speak in a calm rational tone. :) We do not want to stir our children up to anger, instead we want to stir them up to love God!

If you have any tips on how you overcome the urge to yell at your children, leave them below. It might help another mother! 

 

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Clean Sweep: Scrubbing the Kitchen Cabinets

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

 

Did anyone get their hall closet cleaned out? I managed to get one of our closets cleaned, here are some before and after pictures.

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Don’t you love our organized sheets? :)

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After picture….I know it could be organized even better but I’m happy with the progress. I threw away quite a few bottles of things we just don’t use. I also took up someone’s suggestion of putting sheets elsewhere, and moved all our master bedroom sheets under our bed. Our winter sheet set I folded up and put in one of the pillowcases.

Physical Challenge

Today we are scrubbing the kitchen cabinets. If you have a small kitchen this won’t take long! If you have a large kitchen, give your children a sponge and have them help. :) This is a job that can be easily overlooked but your kitchen will look so much better if the cabinets are wiped clean.

Spiritual Challenge

Do you have someone in your life that you need to be long suffering with? Perhaps a child that is going through a struggle and you must be patient with, a husband who is not following the Lord and you must love him through his sin. Today as you scrub your cabinets, think about showing long suffering towards your loved one.

Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy.” James 5:11

Sometimes our lot in life is to endure a trial. How much more blessed and happy are we through that trial if we will endure it patently. Instead of chafing at the bit, allow yourself to blossom and bloom as a rose through that trial. So much easier said then done, yet the Lord grants strength for his children.

 

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Clean Sweep: Organizing the Hall Closet!

Clean Sweep: Dusting Away the cobwebs from our spiritual and temporal lives

 

 

Tuesday is here and it’s time to clean! I spent the weekend getting caught up on laundry. My laundry is done that was downstairs. I had a huge pile thanks to switching out spring/winter clothes but now I need to get all the laundry done that is upstairs!

Let’s dive into our challenges! We are halfway through!

Physical Challenge

Today we are cleaning the hall closet! Whether you have a devoted linen closet, or a hall closet, it’s time to clean it out! I actually am blessed to have three closets in our small hallway, so my lofty goal is to clean all three of them out.  My realistic goal is to clean the linen closet. :) I’ll update you tomorrow with pictures of how it went.

Some things to keep in mind as you clean the closets:

How many sheet sets do you really need? If you are crammed for space, keep a set for on the bed and one clean set. Since we have home births, I also keep an older set of sheets for the time of giving birth and postpartum recovery. That way I don’t have to worry about any messes on nice sheets!

It can be easy to have bottles of cleaners and facial products just pile up in the linen closet. Go through them and seriously purge. If you don’t use it, throw it away. I don’t care if you spent $20.00 on that fantastic lotion 3 years ago at the Arbonne party, if you haven’t touched it in over a year and you know you never will, throw it away or give it to someone else! I have found sometimes I forget about a product that is tucked away. If you really want to use it, pull it out and put it in a prominent spot so you will remember it.

If you are going through a hall closet with coats, make sure you really do wear all the coats. :)

Spiritual Challenge

Do you praise your children? I don’t mean telling them that they look nice on Sunday morning when they are all dressed up. I mean praising them when they did a good job on sweeping the floor, praising them when they promptly got up in the morning, praising them when they gave good effort at setting the table.

As a stay at home mom it can be easy for me to see the faults in my children. I have five little ones that make lots of noise and messes home with me all day long, and I can let the weariness of the day make me only see the attitudes that need corrected. Our children desperately need our affirmation and love. Don’t give false praise, truly look for good attitudes and actions that you can praise them for.

Find at least 3 different reasons that you can bestow praise on each of your children today, and give each child a hug and a kiss at least once today! Let them know you love them!

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