Teaching Children To Do Their Chores

This post may contain Affiliate Links. Thank you for your support!

Chore time. It either brings up happy thoughts of well behaved children that wake up and instantly go to their chores, happy and diligent, or it makes you groan inside as you think of the daily struggle that chore time can be.

I’ve had both thoughts at time. Morning chores can be a “can I pull my hair out?” type experience, but it doesn’t have to be. The key to this (as with most other parenting challenges), is consistency long term.

It’s not fun to be the bad guy. Getting up every morning and reminding children to do their chores is not my favorite thing to do. I don’t want to hear any groans first thing in the morning. But they will never learn if I remind them once or twice a month, and then ignore it the other days.

Children learn best with slow, daily drips of knowledge being consistently fed to them. The same is true for chore time.

You can find more information on our morning chore routine on a previous blog post I wrote, not much has changed since that post, except our children are a little older and some have different chores.

What I’ve been realizing lately is that some of my children needed a refresher course on how to do their chore. You can’t just tell a child to go do the dishes or take care of the laundry without showing them how to run the washing machine, or load the dishwasher. Often you will have to show them more than once, and stand and watch them until they get it down correctly.

The bathroom chore is what was needing a refresher course in our house. We live in a small house with one bathroom, and it’s obviously in high demand with 8 people in our house!

The best way to give a refresher training course? Make it fun! Inspire them about their chore! Make them feel proud of what they do for the family. 

Chore time took much longer than normal, but I went into the bathroom with our son and instead of showing him all the different things he was doing wrong, I started with one simple thing.

The toilet. Yucky! But it needed to be cleaned better, so I told him to go grab a cleaner (Mrs. Meyer’s is our favorite and it’s safe for the children to use! We get it from Grove.) I started pointing to him step by step what I wanted him to clean. But I tried to make a connection to why he was cleaning it.

When he lifted up the toilet seat and started cleaning the bottom part, I told him that no guy wanted to use the toilet when it was really dirty. He didn’t seem to care (typical boy!!) but I said his father would appreciate a clean toilet. 😉

I literally had to stand and point to dirty spots over and over again on the toilet. He has been doing this chore for quite awhile, but I think it’s normal for children to need to a cheerleader to come along behind them and give them refresher training courses.

Here is how I made this chore fun.

This boy loves anything about the west, toy guns (living in the city he has to stay content with toy guns for the most part!), civil war time period…all those historical times of battles and cowboys. He just happened to have a holster strapped onto him already, so I definitely played on that.

“Israel! The spray bottle is your gun! Pull it out and attack this pile of dirt! Oh look at you go! The fastest spray guy in the west!”

Now I’m not talking to a toddler here. You have to know your child, and if something like this would work for them. We started with a quiet, not terribly excited child, and ended our chore time over 30 minutes later with a chid who was happily chattering on about how great the bathroom looked.

“Mama, this bathroom is something we can be proud of now! We don’t have to feel embarrassed when someone comes over!”

It warmed my heart to see him feel pride in a clean bathroom!

Here is a quick step by step list of what we did to the bathroom. 

  1. Clean the toilet, step by step. Wipe down each part of the toilet seat, top bottom, then the lid, the back of the toilet and the top of the toilet.
  2. Clean the sponge. This was a big step. Remind them to constantly be rinsing out their sponge or wash cloth so it’s clean again.
  3. Clean the walls. Our walls really needed wiped down! Spray and wipe, and explain that if you wipe down the areas around the sink every few days then it won’t get very dirty.
  4. Clean the trim. Dust and dirt just collect around our trim and it has to be cleaned! I’ve done this so many times to this bathroom, but it’s something that needs to be done weekly. I reminded him how to use the scrubbing side of the sponge and to scrub right up along the side of the baseboard.
  5. Finally, I reminded him to clean the sink last, and to wipe it down when he was done cleaning.

I clean the shower myself, so we skipped that part. He even got a towel and wiped the floor down, since it was wet from scrubbing it, and then wiped the sink down.

It definitely took quite a bit of my time in the morning, but it was worth it for long term success of getting our bathroom clean!

If you are struggling in chore time, here are a few ideas. 

  1. Rally the troops! Have a family meeting and let your children know how important their chores are that they do. They are really blessing the family, and make them feel super important with the jobs they have.
  2. We don’t give weekly allowances, but we do give checks on their Character Badges chart if they get up and do their chore without reminded. They receive a diligence check. Checks lead to earning coins and they can turn their coins in for rewards! Super motivating! 🙂
  3. Give them a reward to work towards! It could be a small toy or book they want, and if they faithfully do their chore for 2 weeks (or whatever time you set) then they get this item. It can be a great way to instill good habits.

Happy chore time! Press on mother!


Instant Pot Giveaway!

This post may contain Affiliate Links. Thank you for your support!

Instant Pot Giveaway

Instant Pot Giveaway

We love Instant Pot! What exactly is it? IP-DUO series is a smart electric pressure cooker. It’s Safe, Convenient and Dependable, created for fast-paced, healthy, family lifestyles. Instant Pot may just become your new best friend.

The Instant Pot is easy to use and allows you to customize programming with the touch of a button. This is not your mother’s pressure cooker! It’s safe (see user manual), and easy to use. Unlike other fast-cooking methods, Instant Pot retains healthy properties of your food.

It’s a 7-in-1 Multi-functional cooker: pressure cooker, slow cooker, rice cooker, saute, browning, yogurt maker, steamer, and warmer.

What is Instant Pot? Giveaway

Why is Instant Pot Better?

  • Easy to Use and Clean.
  • Extensive Safety Mechanisms Throughout the Cooker.
  • Best-in-Class Customer Service and Support.
  • Strong Fan Base and Online Community.

Instant Pot Brings Back Family Dinner

How often do you mean to get dinner on the table, but you forget to pull out the right food or are left with no time to prepare? Cooking with the Instant Pot (high pressure) reduces cooking time by up to 70%. This translates to more home-cooked, healthy meals that can be prepared in time to bring back family dinner.

Moms with families on the go love using Instant Pot!
If you would love to use an Instant Pot, but want help to figure out how to exactly use it, here is a brand new, very affordable course on using the Instant Pot!

I’m going through this course myself, and while I already love the Instant Pot, I really need to learn how to do more in it!

Recipes for Instant Pot

  1. Tender Whole Chicken
  2. Mexican Chicken Soup
  3. Homegrown Chicken Vegetable Soup
  4. Southern Black Eyed Peas
  5. Beef Bourguignon
  6. Cheesy Potatoes
  7. Pork Chops with Cream Sauce
  8. Chicken Stew in 40 min
  9. Marinara with Bolognese Variation
  10. Perfect Instant Rice
  11. Cheesy Delicious Taco Bake Dinner
  12. Authentic Mexican Rice
  13. Southern Style Greens (scroll down)
  14. Canning Apple Butter
  15. Healthy Bone Broth – Paleo

Instant Pot GIVEAWAY Details

We think everyone should have an Instant Pot. It’s the latest craze for good reason. We’ve partnered with blogger friends to give away one of these beauties.

Instant Pot Giveaway

Sponsors include: Frugal Mommas, Adventure Homeschool, Ben and Me, Blessed Beyond A Doubt, Encouraging Moms at Home, Sidetracked Sarah, The Modest Mom Blog, The Place For Busy Moms.

Disclosure: *By entering the giveaway, you acknowledge and consent to allowing the sponsoring companies (as listed) to contact you via email/newsletter. If at any time AFTER the giveaway has ended, you feel the newsletters you receive are not of value for your family – simply use the ‘unsubscribe’ button at the bottom of the email. We never SPAM, and will not share your information with others. Feel free to contact any sponsors directly if we can be of further service. Must be 18 or older. Legal USA residents only. See full legal disclosure in Rafflecopter.

Enter with ONE option – or use them all!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Two Great Sales That You Don’t Want To Miss!

This post may contain Affiliate Links. Thank you for your support!

Wahoo! Lilla Rose is so fantastic to offer the February Flexi of the Month clip early, as it is a beautiful clip for Valentine’s Day! They are even offering a sale to go along with the new clips that are being released!

If you like victorian style accessories, you will love these clips! They are not the usual bright red Valentine’s Day clips, rather a deep rich ruby red.

Cherish – Heart filigree with ruby red stone, dark rose, and copper luster accents. February ’17 FOTM available during the month of February or while supplies last.

Rose – A delicate brass rose with black nickel accents, perfect for a romantic look.

Morning Joy – A delectable steaming cup of coffee with delicate nickel beading. This has been a long requested flexi clip! If you are not a coffee drinker (I’m not!), this could represent that herbal tea you love! Or hot chocolate. Yummy. 🙂

Heart Blossom – A lovely bouquet of hearts paired with dainty beading.

Cora – A lovely victorian etched heart with bright violet. This Flexi Clip is a Limited Release and available only while supplies last.

All of these clips will be available at 7 AM PST today, and the sale lasts for 41 hours! Don’t forget that the monthly special for January also applies, if you order $50 worth you get a free mini clip of your choice. 

If you need help with sizing, go here to find more info!

For those of you who are attacking clutter and trying to get organized, The Ultimate Bundle people have put together a great bundle of resources to help you do that! It starts today, and I just wanted to briefly mention it for you!

The Conquer Your Clutter Bundle has some of the tried and true resources included, like the 2017 Motivated Moms daily check list.


The Home Management For The Homeschool Mom is a great book by one of my favorite bloggers, Amy Roberts of Raising Arrows. It’s full of tips from a mom of 10!

I’m loving these daily routine cards. Such a great idea for helping your children have a good routine in their day, especially for those who cannot read yet!

Of course you can’t have a bundle on organizing without planners! Here are some great resources.

This bundle is worth over $600, but for 6 days only you can get it all for just $29.97. If this is something that interests you, make sure you click over to the website for more details. I just wanted to make sure you knew about it! January seems to be the month when a lot of people are ready to declutter their house and work on being organized. 🙂




My Word Of The Year For 2017!

This post may contain Affiliate Links. Thank you for your support!

It took me awhile to decide on my word for the year. I had so many different words swirling around in my head for different areas in my life. It wasn’t until I was listening to my husband preach an amazing sermon this past Sunday that the word just hit me.

My word for the year is Focus.

When I think back to 2016, nothing spectacular happened. We didn’t see our big family goal happen, nothing big stands out to me that happened in 2016. Not that every year needs to be big, but I was very ready to see the year end, and for a fresh start.

We sat around the table as a family the other night and used the Best Year Ever Goal Planner that Sean made, and I used the page to rate how I felt 2016 went. I didn’t feel like I had very many successes in 2016 at all, and it was so eye opening to write down my reasons why. I encourage you to sit down and take a good look at the past year as well, because it helps as you go forward into the new year!

This year I want to focus on all the important things. In a way, get back to the basics. Renew my vision for the importance of being a mother and a homemaker. Read to my children again (we did really good with this in the first half of the year, not so much the second half).

I want to focus more on cleaning my house daily instead of letting things pile up. I’m using the Motivated Moms app on my phone this year, and I have hope of this being a huge help. I just need someone else telling me what to do each day with my house. When I look around my house I see all the obvious tasks (dishes need done, laundry needs washed, bathrooms need cleaned), but the little things don’t get done. I like that I can just scroll through the list and assign my children each a small job and we all pitch in together to get the list accomplished for the day.

I want to focus on our businesses more. I want to do a better job of planning out blog posts, and having a better schedule as to when I work. I have a brand new business coming probably the end of this month (more details coming soon!) and I will need a great deal of focus to make it all work.

My spiritual life needs more focus. I need to spend more time in prayer and reading God’s word. Instead of carrying all my burdens around myself, bringing them to God and laying them at His feet! I’m a better wife, mother, friend, and business owner when I make spending time with God first.

I need to focus on giving myself grace. I feel so guilty when I have downtime (which I had a lot more of last year than normal). The truth is, I can only go so long without totally burning out. I went to bed at 8:00 last night, because I was just so exhausted! My husband is quick to give me grace and tell me to take a nap, or go have quiet time, so I need to not feel guilty about this!

I need to focus on fitness. I’m working on eating healthy and actually doing workouts. I started using a DVD from Leslie Sansone that incorporates weights and walking, I really like the challenge! Normally her walking DVD’s alone don’t feel challenging enough, but I woke up sore from doing the leg workout with 5 pound dumbbells. 🙂

I’m excited about using this word for 2017. I’m hopeful for the year ahead, and looking forward to seeing that God has in store for our family!




Privacy Policy